18)  Noticing hints of possibility

Finding the strengths/possibilities.  Recognizing what does work and what may lead to success.  Using these details and the client's words to build on the successes.

19)  Exploring client meanings

 Understanding how the client perceives their experiences.  Find out how this impacts them, connect this to hints of possibilities.

20)  Relationship questions

 Questions about the impact of differences - what the client wants different, remembering that the only person whom you can help change is the client who is sitting in front  of you. 

21)  Amplifying solution talk

Helping the client understand their experiences in a strengths based way, building on those strengths