You are looking for a textbook on grant writing.  You have been told that it is the best book you can get and will help you pass a tough grant writing course.  You find the book on a shelf and reach for it at the same time as someone else reaches for it.  The book store has told you this is the last copy of the book and they will not be able to get another copy in for two months.  The person reaching for it is not someone you know but you quickly learn that they live in a different state and drove two hours to get this book. Resolve the situation using the chosen style, and act out the resolution.

Styles include:

Avoider

Accommodator

Competitor

Compromiser

Collaborator

Selective use of styles